Design and materials
This toy is made from liquid silicone and measures 23 cm in total length, with an insertable depth of 18.5 cm. The shaft has a diameter of 5.2 cm and a circumference of 15 cm—fairly substantial, so it's worth considering if you're familiar with that sort of girth. The design is realistic with raised veins along the shaft, giving it a natural appearance. One of its defining features is the sturdy suction cup base, which allows it to stick firmly to smooth, non-porous surfaces. The toy also works with standard harnesses, making it suitable for partnered use in that context. At approximately 320 grams, it has a noticeable weight to it.
What it's like to use
Because this is a manual toy with no motor or electronics, all movement and control is entirely up to you—there are no vibrations to worry about. That means it's quiet and discreet, and there's no battery to manage. The suction cup base is a practical touch: it adheres to shower walls, tiles, or any smooth, flat surface, which can be handy for hands-free exploration. The realistic design and veining offer tactile variation along the shaft. The weight and girth mean it demands confidence during use, so it's best suited to people who already know what they're comfortable with. If you use it with a partner or in a harness, the compatibility opens up different ways to enjoy it.
Cleaning and care
Silicone is one of the easier materials to maintain. It can be washed with warm soapy water or a dedicated toy cleanser, and it won't absorb bacteria like porous materials do. Make sure it's thoroughly dry before storing, and keep it away from prolonged direct sunlight or extreme heat. Don't use silicone-based lubricants, as these can degrade the material over time; water-based lubricants are the safer choice.
Buy it if
You prefer manual toys without batteries or noise. You want a suction-cup option for shower or wall play, or you're interested in harness-compatible toys. You like a realistic aesthetic with texture. You're comfortable with a substantial girth and don't need external stimulation alongside penetration.
Skip it if
You prefer vibration or multiple intensity settings. You need something smaller or with a narrower diameter. You're new to toys and want something more modest to start with. You're looking for a toy that prioritises ergonomic curves over realism.
The bottom line
The Loving Joy 9 Inch is a solid, straightforward choice for those who know what they want from a manual silicone toy. The suction cup base and harness compatibility add practical versatility, and the realistic design will suit a particular aesthetic preference. It's substantial in size and weight, so it's not a beginner's toy, but for someone confident in their preferences, it offers good value and reliable performance.
Frequently asked questions
Can I use this toy in water?
Silicone is water-resistant, so it's safe for shower use. The suction cup base actually works particularly well on wet shower walls and tiles, though you'll want to clean it thoroughly afterwards.
Is the suction cup reusable?
Yes, the suction cup base should remain effective across many uses as long as you keep it and the surface clean. If it eventually loses grip, cleaning both the cup and the surface thoroughly may restore it.
What lubricant should I use?
Always use a water-based lubricant with silicone toys, as silicone-based lubes can damage the material. Avoid oil-based products as well.
Is this toy suitable for beginners?
The 5.2 cm diameter and 320 g weight make it quite substantial, so it's better suited to people with some experience. Beginners might want to start with something smaller.
Can I use this with a partner?
Yes, the harness compatibility means it can be used in partnered scenarios, and the manual nature gives partners full control over speed and depth.